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Internet Addiction? Or Social Evolution?

Written byĀ Michelle Marie

Iā€™m sure the thought has crossed your mind before, ā€œIā€™m addicted to the Internetā€. Stop! You are no more addicted to the Internet than a crackhead is addicted to a crack pipe! The Internet is the tool not the drug. Itā€™s the information highway to our interests, our desires, our hopes, and our dreams. The Internet gives us pleasure; it feeds our imagination, strengthens our knowledge, and connects us to people we share commonalities with all across the world with whom we would not otherwise be able to connect with.

The evolution of socialization.

Robert W. Sussman, Ph.D., a professor of anthropology for the Arts and Sciences at Washington University states that animals and humans benefit from being social and believes supporting evidence exists to back up his claim. According to Dr. Sussman there are two areas of the primate and human brain that are stimulated when we cooperate (socialize) with each other. Dr. Sussman believes weā€™ve evolved to gain pleasure form socialization through the release of hormones such as serotonin and oxytocin which play a large role in social recognition and trust.

We must stop and ask ourselves an important question; are we becoming less social or are we becoming more social? I think most of us can agree that weā€™re defiantly becoming more connected through emerging technologies resulting in new ways we humans interact with each other. Can the expansion of connections between people occur with a decrease in socialization?

Many people will agree that the growth of technology in the last couple decades has lead us to be a lot less social. Weā€™re texting instead of talking, joining Hangouts instead meeting in person, and socializing on virtual networks instead of our local coffee shop with our real world friends and neighbors. But socializing doesnā€™t have to occur in face to face, person to person, and voice to voice situations for us to continue being social, itā€™s just become a lot more convenient since the rise of all the wonderful technology gadgets and social media sites that bring us together.

Humans are not retreating away from our nature of being social creatures weā€™re moving forward evolving into something much bigger and more complex, a place where we feel more socially connected right from the comfort of our own homes, offices, libraries, and smartphones that can be taken just about anywhere and still receive Internet access. The world itself evolved through the process of making things more convenient and efficient. Itā€™s nature finding its way.

Yesterday I rode in the elevator with someone who was fixated on his cell phone just as I was. He looked up at me and said ā€œwhat would we do without our cell phones?ā€ I thought for a second, ā€œI have no ideaā€. But later on it dawned on me that we could question the same for just about everything that has become a depending part in our lives. What would we do with out cars, air conditioning, refrigeration, or indoor plumbing if it they were taken away? The only difference now is that weā€™re from a generation where we didnā€™t always have cell phones or the Internet. We can look back in a time where things were done in a less convenient and efficient way, but back then it was the most efficient and convenient way of doing things. To take away our cell phones and Internet access would be just the same as taking away the light bulb two decades after Edison invented it.

Change isnā€™t always viewed as a good thing. Change is often scary when no one knows the direction their heading and every step taken is taken blindly. But to condemn a direction thatā€™s happening naturally would be no different than condemning the evolution of mankind.

Are we addicted to the Internet? Or are we something else – genetically hardwired with pleasure releasing hormones pushing us to invent ways in which we can socially connect in the most convenient and efficient ways possible? It seems to me weā€™re in the midst of a social paradigm shift rather than an Internet addiction epidemic.

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25 Perfectly Timed Photos

Collected byĀ egotvonline

Thereā€™s nothing quite like aĀ perfectly timed photo. Thereā€™s something about seeing something funny about to happen thatā€™s just so much better than seeing something funny happen. Check out these 25Ā perfectly timed photosand see for yourself:

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Bonus: Stop staring at your phone while walking.

People who carelessly walk and text are just silly. A woman fell into a fountain over a year ago texting:Ā Woman Falls in Mall Fountain While TextingĀ And a woman recently fell down the stairs while texting:http://youtu.be/g3jOlQqDPzQ

It’s a shame signs like this below have to be erected.

What do you think of people who walk and text?

Hat tip toĀ +Nikki SĀ for sharing this picture.

Before you speak…. THINK

T – is itĀ TRUE?
H – is itĀ HELPFUL?
I – is itĀ INSPIRING?
N – is itĀ NECESSARY?
K – is itĀ KIND?

Before you speak.... THINK

Bonus: Stay classy, Chris.

Stay classy, Chris.

Thelonious Monk’s Advice

Written by listsofnote

The following fantastic list of advice comes courtesy of legendary jazz pianistThelonious Monk, a musical genius who died exactly 30 years ago, on February 17th of 1982. The list was transcribed by saxophonistĀ Steve LacyĀ in 1960.

Enjoy.

Transcript follows.

(Source:Ā Heck of a Guy; Image above: Thelonious Monk,Ā via.)

Transcript

T.MONK’S ADVICEĀ (1960)

JUST BECAUSE YOUā€™RE NOT AĀ DRUMMER, DOESNā€™T MEAN YOU DONā€™T HAVE TOĀ KEEP TIME.

PAT YOUR FOOT & SING THE MELODY IN YOUR HEAD, WHEN YOU PLAY.

STOP PLAYING ALL THOSE WEIRD NOTES (THATĀ BULLSHIT), PLAY THEĀ MELODY!

MAKE THE DRUMMER SOUNDĀ GOOD.

DISCRIMINATION IS IMPORTANT.

YOUā€™VE GOT TO DIG IT TOĀ DIGĀ IT, YOU DIG?

ALL REET!

ALWAYS KNOW… (MONK)

IT MUST BE ALWAYSĀ NIGHT, OTHERWISE THEY WOULDNā€™T NEED THEĀ LIGHTS.

LETā€™SĀ LIFT THE BAND STAND!!

I WANT TO AVOID THEĀ HECKLERS.

DONā€™T PLAY THEĀ PIANO PART, Iā€™M PLAYING THAT. DONā€™T LISTEN TOĀ ME. Iā€™M SUPPOSED TO BE ACCOMPANYINGĀ YOU!

THEĀ INSIDEĀ OF THE TUNE (THE BRIDGE) IS THE PART THAT MAKES THEĀ OUTSIDEĀ SOUND GOOD.

DONā€™T PLAYĀ EVERYTHINGĀ (OR EVERY TIME); LET SOME THINGSĀ GO BY. SOME MUSIC JUSTĀ IMAGINED. WHAT YOUDONā€™TĀ PLAY CAN BE MORE IMPORTANT THAT WHAT YOUĀ DO.

ALWAYS LEAVE THEM WANTING MORE.

A NOTE CAN BE SMALL AS A PIN OR AS BIG AS THE WORLD, IT DEPENDS ON YOURĀ IMAGINATION.

STAY INĀ SHAPE! SOMETIMES A MUSICIAN WAITS FOR A GIG, & WHEN IT COMES, HEā€™S OUT OF SHAPE & CANā€™T MAKE IT.

WHEN YOUā€™REĀ SWINGING, SWING SOMEĀ MORE!

(WHAT SHOULD WE WEAR TONIGHT?Ā SHARP AS POSSIBLE!)

DONā€™T SOUNDĀ ANYBODYĀ FOR A GIG, JUST BEĀ ON THE SCENE. THESE PIECES WERE WRITTEN SO AS TO HAVE SOMETHING TO PLAY, & TO GET CATSĀ INTERESTEDĀ ENOUGH TO COME TOREHEARSAL.

YOUā€™VE GOT IT! IF YOU DONā€™T WANT TO PLAY, TELL A JOKE OR DANCE, BUT IN ANY CASE,Ā YOU GOT IT! (TO A DRUMMER WHO DIDNā€™T WANT TO SOLO).

WHATEVER YOU THINKĀ CANā€™TĀ BE DONE, SOMEBODY WILL COME ALONG &Ā DO IT. A GENIUS IS THE ONEĀ MOST LIKE HIMSELF.

THEY TRIED TO GET ME TO HATE WHITE PEOPLE, BUT SOMEONE WOULD ALWAYS COME ALONG & SPOIL IT.

 

Ā Bonus:Ā Very cool multiple exposure shot of takeoffs at Hannover Airport by Ho-Yeol Ryu.

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