{"id":2402,"date":"2010-09-03T20:31:51","date_gmt":"2010-09-04T03:31:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bspcn.com\/?p=2402"},"modified":"2010-09-03T20:31:51","modified_gmt":"2010-09-04T03:31:51","slug":"7-traits-of-real-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/localhost\/wordpress\/2010\/09\/03\/7-traits-of-real-men\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Traits of Real Men"},"content":{"rendered":"

Written by mocha dad<\/a><\/p>\n

\"\"Photo by: Photofinish2009 via Flickr<\/p>\n

Men were made to be bold, strong, leaders. However, our society has attempted to repress these traits<\/a>. If you look at the way men (especially dads) are portrayed on TV, you\u2019d think we were all a bunch of irresponsible, befuddled, nincompoops, who can only function with the help of a \u201csmart\u201d female partner, friend, or spouse.<\/p>\n

Consequently, many boys are confused<\/a> and have no idea what it takes to be a real man<\/a>. They seek inappropriate role models and emulate the bad behavior that they see on a regular basis.<\/p>\n

It is our duty as men, fathers, and responsible citizens to counter these negative images and raise a new generation of men who are respectful, loving, and willing to contribute to society in a positive way.<\/p>\n

If we are to achieve this goal, we must start with improving ourselves. I started my journey towards self-improvement after my daughter\u2019s birth. The greatest compliment that a father can get from his daughter is \u201cI want to marry someone just like you.\u201d That kind of pressure forces you to examine your life and look for ways to improve.<\/p>\n

Over the years, I\u2019ve discovered seven traits that real men possess:<\/p>\n

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  1. Integrity<\/strong> \u2013 Integrity is more than being honest. It\u2019s a lifestyle set on striving towards moral excellence. Real men say what they mean and mean what they say. <\/em>They are the same person whether or not others are watching. They are trustworthy, dependable, and unwavering.<\/li>\n
  2. Compassion<\/strong> \u2013 Compassion is sympathetic consciousness of others\u2019 distress together with a desire to alleviate it. In other words, you feel compelled to help someone who is hurting. Men aren\u2019t often viewed as being compassionate, but it is a trait that helps us to become more connected to the people around us. Real men turn their compassion into service and work to make the world a better place<\/em>.<\/li>\n
  3. Confidence<\/strong> \u2013 Real men are confident.<\/em> Many people confuse confidence with arrogance and self-centeredness. Real men know the difference. Confidence is about being self-assured and self-aware. Confident men have faith in their abilities and knowledge. They don\u2019t need to tear others down in order to build themselves up. They earn people\u2019s trust with their radiant, inner strength. When a they walk into the room, everyone takes notice.<\/li>\n
  4. Self-control<\/strong> \u2013 Hardly a day goes by without a news report about some high-profile man who has been destroyed by sex, money, and\/or drugs. Too many men lack self-control, but it is the foundation of a virtuous life. Self-control starts with focus and ridding yourself of distractions. Doing this isn\u2019t easy because temptations lurk around every corner. Real men are able to tame their desires and channel that energy into positive pursuits<\/em>.<\/li>\n
  5. Perseverance<\/strong> \u2013 Perseverance is the product of self-control. It is courageous resistance against difficult circumstances. Perseverance is only developed through trials. Real men endure the trials and emerge stronger. <\/em>They never give up.<\/em><\/li>\n
  6. Bravery<\/strong> \u2013 Bravery is the courage to do what is right regardless of the circumstances. Nothing is ever accomplished with an attitude of passivity. Real men stand up in the face of adversity<\/em>.<\/li>\n
  7. Humility <\/strong>\u2013 Today\u2019s breed of young men loves to let everyone know how much swagger they have. They thump their chests and proclaim to the world, \u201cI\u2019m a Big Deal. Look at me!\u201d Real men understand the value of being humble and letting someone else\u2019s light shine<\/em>. They realize that humility is more endearing than self-importance. Humility indicates that you are ridding yourself of the poison of self-centeredness. Besides, humility softens the blow when someone knocks you off your pedestal.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Acquiring all of these traits takes time and dedication. However, our society would benefit greatly if all men strove to possess them.<\/p>\n

    Stay Strong,<\/p>\n

    Question: In your opnion, what traits should a real man possess? <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n


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    Bonus: so true….. <\/strong><\/p>\n

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