{"id":3814,"date":"2011-04-09T22:43:41","date_gmt":"2011-04-10T05:43:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bspcn.com\/?p=3814"},"modified":"2011-04-09T22:43:41","modified_gmt":"2011-04-10T05:43:41","slug":"5-steps-to-having-a-legit-online-dating-experience","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/localhost\/wordpress\/2011\/04\/09\/5-steps-to-having-a-legit-online-dating-experience\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Steps To Having a Legit Online Dating Experience"},"content":{"rendered":"

Written by Natty<\/a><\/p>\n

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So you\u2019ve decided that going to bars kind of sucks.\u00a0\u00a0 It\u2019s not that you\u2019re having so many one night stands that you are tired of getting laid all the time.\u00a0 It\u2019s that you kind of want something more.\u00a0 So you end up joiningMatch<\/a> or whatever site you choose and try to meet that special someone.<\/p>\n

Little did you know this is an entire world unto itself.\u00a0 Personally I like online dating as that\u2019s how I met my wife.\u00a0 It\u2019s easier, cuts out all the bullshit and you can definitely get laid if you want to.\u00a0 Yay!<\/p>\n

But if you are serious about being successful in online dating then I would suggest you follow these five rules\u2026.<\/p>\n

1. Use an Accurate \u201cLess Good\u201d Picture of Yourself<\/strong><\/p>\n

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I can\u2019t tell you how many faux pictures there are out there of girls online.\u00a0 It\u2019s like they want you to think they\u2019re hot in the picture and then you meet them, see that they\u2019re not and you\u2019re not supposed to care?\u00a0 Wrong.\u00a0\u00a0 What I would recommend is that you get a picture of yourself that is slightly LESS good looking than you are in real life.\u00a0 That way if they\u2019re attracted to that picture you\u2019re golden on a first date.\u00a0\u00a0 Undersell and over deliver.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Don\u2019t do it the other way around.<\/p>\n

2. Become a Picture Wizard<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Learn the ropes in identifying pictures of the opposite sex.\u00a0 A couple of key points.\u00a0\u00a0 If a girl only posts pictures of her face?\u00a0 She doesn\u2019t have a good body.\u00a0 Same with guys.\u00a0\u00a0 Look for way too much airbrushing or makeup.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 You want pictures with barely any make up because then you\u2019ll have a clearer picture.\u00a0 You must master picture identification.<\/p>\n

3. Learn to be funny on IM<\/strong><\/p>\n

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This is your intro folks.\u00a0 Most likely you\u2019ll be chatting it up with someone.\u00a0\u00a0 Using IM conversations is a great way for you to have time to think of what to write.\u00a0 Don\u2019t screw it up.<\/p>\n

4. Be Simple, and Don\u2019t Scare them off<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Remember, you haven\u2019t met these people yet.\u00a0 I\u2019ve had girls tell me they want to get married, have kids, etc etc.\u00a0\u00a0 I guess there\u2019s merit in telling the truth right off the bat but wait a couple of dates for that stuff.\u00a0 It\u2019s really not necessary at the beginning.\u00a0\u00a0 Don\u2019t get too deep too fast unless you really click on that first date. <\/p>\n

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5. For God\u2019s Sake Don\u2019t Lie<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Don\u2019t say you\u2019re 5\u201910 and wind up being 5\u20190 tall.\u00a0\u00a0 HOW in the world do people do this?<\/p>\n

Bonus: Do you know the meaning of Alphabetic letter’s?<\/h3>\n

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Written by Natty So you\u2019ve decided that going to bars kind of sucks.\u00a0\u00a0 It\u2019s not that you\u2019re having so many one night stands that you are tired of getting laid all the time.\u00a0 It\u2019s that you kind of want something more.\u00a0 So you end up joiningMatch or whatever site you choose and try to meet […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/localhost\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3814"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/localhost\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/localhost\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/localhost\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/localhost\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3814"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/localhost\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3814\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3815,"href":"http:\/\/localhost\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3814\/revisions\/3815"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/localhost\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3814"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/localhost\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3814"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/localhost\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3814"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}